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Listen Up Beauties!

by June 12, 2015 5 comments

Hello Ms. It’s your bestie – Me. This is a charge for you this beautiful Friday Morning.

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Appreciate your loved ones in your life now before you lose them. Because, in the course of you searching for a better person, you may end up getting lesser than the values you previously enjoyed with your loved ones that you lost.

Many ladies have been victims of this attitude. If you don’t appreciate your partner now, by the time it is too late, you will end up waiting too long searching for somebody that possess almost exactly the traits you enjoyed in your previous relationship. In the course of this search, many ladies end up clocking 40/45 years without been fulfilled with a desired relationship.

What many ladies, especially in the Church these days called “The waiting period” for their Isaac to come is mere “A regretting period” of their past deeds. Inside of them, they acknowledge the fact that at one time or the other, their OWN came knocking, perhaps stayed with them but they were not patient enough to let it matured into a marital union, all in the name of searching for a better person or material gains.

According to what an experienced lady shared with me sometime ago, that most of the ladies in this category have a standard set before them by the previous relationship, therefore, any subsequent gentle man that comes along MUST meet that standard if not more than, before they can actually accept his proposal. By so doing, ladies tend to point out all his negative habits at the beginning of what we may call ‘a prospective relationship’; this is due to COMPARISM syndrome. That is, if you can’t get those qualities you never appreciated in your previous man but now realized it and appreciates them but couldn’t find in the new man, you continue to wait until ‘a better man’ comes your way, which may cost you years, chances of which may be 1 in 100million.

So, you now see why it is good to appreciate what you have at the moment, and forget about searching for what could be better, because in the course of searching for what could be better, you end up getting lesser than what you desire. And again, don’t forget that you aged everyday and women are not like men who by the days get more handsome as long as he is becoming more financially successful. The truth is girls were born beautiful but becomes uglier by the days even when they are more financially successful, but there are no ugly men as long as there is money in his pockets.

Hear this, the number one predominant asset of a woman is her physical attraction (Beauty) which is also temporal, intellects and every other beauties as defined in the Christendom, are called virtues, yes I said intellects, because you cannot purchase supernatural intelligent with money. But don’t be deceived, your physical will be seen before your virtues are noticed. Every man with heavy pockets wants a physically beautiful woman as wife. I acknowledge that spiritual virtues CANNOT be purchased with money, yet please make hail while the sun is yet shinning, and don’t use your own regrets to start counseling other upcoming young ladies who may fall victims of lack of contentment. Why must you regret the decisions in your life before you become a counselor? You can live a fulfilled life and teach others how you got to where you are now. Because you can’t convince me to follow the path you don’t know yourself. If you knew, you would not fall victim. The earlier the better. Let us learn.

 

 

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  1. keykerr
    #1 keykerr 18 September, 2013, 21:09

    Hmm, I luv dis write-up… Very inspiring, dis one is surely an eye-opener to all the ladies out there. There’s a clear difference btw defining ur standards and making ur standards define u…. *thinking* thumbs up rehobothland, pls kip em coming #winks

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  2. Tha Bauss
    #2 Tha Bauss 19 September, 2013, 02:03

    Great post. Please keep em’ coming.

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  3. Iyanu
    #3 Iyanu 20 September, 2013, 01:20

    Well done gets one to think thanks for sharing 🙂

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  4. Sanford
    #4 Sanford 27 September, 2013, 06:06

    Hi! This post couldn’t be written any better! Reading this post reminds me of my previous
    room mate! He always kept chatting about this.
    I will forward this post to him. Pretty sure he will have a good read.
    Thanks for sharing!

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